December 11, 2009
Guide to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I don’t want to be hurt again, but I truly want to be with my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you would think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and letting go from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that’s just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I am not speaking of the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you desire in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s important to realize what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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November 20, 2009
Advice for Singles: Find a Relationship with the Law of Attraction
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
People who are single who want to appreciate the Law of Attraction to attract a relationship sometimes ask me for advice. These people ask, “Can you create an incompatible lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will explain. You attract the “Wrong” relationship with a basis on what it is you project you desire. In other words, your words are saying “I want someone who is fun, loving, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your dominant subconscious intention is something more to the tune of … “I can never meet the right woman. Why is it my pals have such an easy route? What am I doing wrong? Where are all of the eligible right for me women? And so on. So you are going to end up attracting more concerning what you’re thinking and what you are expecting to happen. So is she incorrect? Or is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction says what you focus on you attain more of. So if you are not in a relationship and are searching for a love, you must pay attention to what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the converse.
A good exercise to change your thinking on this is by wielding a powerful tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You should use this tool when you see you have some negative emotion and need to keep changing the direction of your vibration and find a more harmonious feeling place. When you want to improve your threshold of creation since you’ve got some negative momentum going. Here’s how it works: you need to do this with paper and pencil to get the hang of it. I actually recommend that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll wish to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this process.
At the top of the paper write the subject of what you desire a more harmonious vibrational set point on. Perhaps something has gotten your attention that you don’t desire, you would prefer to not have it occurring, or maybe you’ve attained a large bit of judgment about it and feel bad. Write down what that is. Now notice that you know what you don’t want and the comparison has helped you to create the intention of what you DO want. Your task is to put down in detail you want. And keep turning your desire to the better feeling thought. Put down lists of what you like about what IS working, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present situation. Look for things to be grateful for in the situation and in any outside or related life situation. This will put you to the positive attraction setting. You’ll attract what you desire rather than negative intentions. Test it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?
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November 13, 2009
I keep attracting guys who won’t commit. How do I change these relationship patterns?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
You’ve arrived at the right place for Law of Attraction dating and relationship help. This is what I like to call a high-quality question. Arline from Brazil says she keeps creating men who won’t commit. She wants to find out how she can change these relationship patterns. It is obvious to see that Arline holds herself responsible for this recurrence. There’s so much influence in taking responsibility for what’s going on in your existence. That is a magnificent step in the purposeful creation process. I understand just how that feels, because that was my act of creation before I created my giant relationship breakthrough. I continued attracting men who were fearful of commitment. What I didn’t see was that I was sending out muddled messages. I find it fantastic how we can say we desire one thing and yet send out a signal that attracts just the opposite.
You want to date a person who is committed to the relationship. You don’t want to be concerned and be curious of if he’s feeling good if you’re the only one who is really committed. The vibration of “insecure” in the relationship creates more signals of doubt. Using Law of Attraction Dating will just send back to you further energy of the exact wavelength. You want to take care of this vibration by creating what it feels like to feel secure in your love. What does it feel like to realize you are ready to be adored? Work with the energy of how amazing that feels and you’ll be communicating to the Universe another life entirely.
We’re all incredible creators and we desire to know how to get more of what we want in your life and relationships. I coach some hugely powerful tools in shifting your point of attraction, called Shifting Focus. You’ll learn about this and much more in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams. Get powerful Law of Attraction Relationship and Dating Advice.
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