June 16, 2010
Law Of Attraction Relationships: Transforming Your Feelings Into An Energetic Match To Your Wants
Law of Attraction Relationships
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …
If you want a thing you don’t have, like a wonderful relationship or financial independence, for example, and you have been wanting this for quite a long time — 9 months, maybe several years, and it still has not come into your life — then there’s resistance preventing you from having what you desire. There’s something not quite right in the area of your vibration. If you take the time and care enough to clean up your vibration, you will be in an attractive mode and finally let in what you have wanted for so long.
Here’s the problem: we do not always know what’s wrong with our vibration. The tiny vibrational differences have been around long enough, we do not even realize they are there. Similar to the quiet purr of a computer processor, it simply meshes into the background. I like to call these vibrational differences counter-intentions.
A counter-intention simply reflects a heavily ingrained thought pattern that has been trained into us by earlier generations. A counter-intention means a limited thought pattern or a conversation based in the history of failure or lack of power. If you do not understand what your counter-intentions are, that is okay. Just know if what you desire is not arriving, something is holding you back, and state a clear message of the thing you desire. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative energy!
1. State the thing you desire.
2. Attune to the mental dialogue you may have acquired about why you cannot have it.
3. When negative emotion arises related to why you can’t have the thing you desire or why it’s taking such a long while to get it, ease yourself into a better feeling thought.
Most of us imagine that you have to quantum leap your vibration prior to actual manifestation. Not so. You simply have to feel a little bit better consistently. You need to engage by watching so you can know when you’re not a match to your desire. Thoughts tend to zip by quickly, this is why tuning in to what you feel helps you catch what is going on in the area of your energy.
Practice - it’ll pay off. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Having an unbiased listener to talk to will help you move away from old patterns much more quickly.
Keep with it, before you know it people will be asking you “how is it that you married the love of your dreams, get offered all-expenses paid cruises and make bestselling books?!” Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationships Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.
This, my friend (if you want it) CAN be YOU! Here’s to Happiness and Mastery!
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May 24, 2010
Law Of Attraction And Relationships: A New Look At The Dating Game - Playing With Energy And Innocence Part II
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …
1. The fear of failure is very human
Perhaps in the past a relationship or two haven’t worked out. Well, there’s a club. That happens to each one of us. It does not determine any qualities about who you are. It is just something that occurred in the past. You would grant any one of your peers the forgiveness to move on after a situation that did not work out? Of course you would. When you consider that failure is simply creating room for a new experience. Remember that dating (and life) is a game. Play it and be present. Show up with the first priority to have fun and find something different, not to find out how to validate yourself or prove how unfixable you are. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your positive vibration!
Practice innocence and go full out. Just put it on and see how refreshing it is. Nobody is intending to steal a part of you from you that you’re not going to give. Sure, there can be a varying degree of expectations from your date. There is not a thing wrong with that. Simply and effective communicative ability should should take care of that. Trust me, you’re going to come up with different things you’ll expect and points of compatibility. If you don’t, you would get terribly bored of that person in quite a small amount of time. Should you decide that you simply desired one play date, that’s totally fine too. There’s no inherent rejecting involved. It is just a choice on how you or he/she prefers to use their time. It is simply a choice, not a rejection. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to grasp.
2. Do you have a case of the not-enoughers?
Your internal monologue is “I am not thin enough”, “I am not as wealthy as I want to be”; you know those stories. You’re simply not enough. Consider that at the center of all people’s being, everyone has that ancient internal conversation, too. You are not the only one here.
Do your best to remain present and on purpose when playing the dating game. Meaning, the purpose is to have fun. Imagine it as an exploration. “What is something new I can gather concerning myself or my date?” Send the energy just before your date. That means to meaningfully declare what you want for your date. For example, “I intend to have fun and laugh on my date. I am going to let it be simple and light.” Now you’ve just created an energetic route for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.
Using passion and purpose is a simple way to grow your self in the moment. It’s a very different way to think about dating. Practice passion by being all-out and open with the focus on having fun. Practice purpose by deliberately considering and evaluating what you are thinking. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.
The vibration of FUN is one of the most attractive in existence. Let it go. Live and let yourself have fun. You’ll turn into a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing that, eventually you will create the perfect fun mate.
It does not matter if you’re 25 or 75 dating - simply enjoy your existence. If approached as a fun game, one in which winning and losing isn’t relevant, life will go much more smoothly for everyone.
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …
This is an intermediate to high level discussion about the Law of Attraction. It is very valuable to you to realize the place your emotions have in the attracting process. Let us take the example of a garden hose. When the spigot is turned on water flows from the hose. When there is a blockage or a knot somewhere on the hose, the water flow is impeded or pinched off, so you have a resisting flow. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you right now to free yourself from outdated limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.
How can you know if that which you are attracting or intending is flowing to you? The answer comes from listening to your inner state of flow. You have made a desire or sent a desire to the Universe, and if you do not repel your want, it’s on its course to you. If you’re wondering what’s taking so long, have a look to your energy and see if you have resistance to having what you desire. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it’s simple to grasp.
“Resistance? I know I desire to get the money to go to the college of my desire,” or “Of course I want to get a wonderful career.” Well that’s well and good, but if it has been months to years since you first concocted that which you want, you have definitely got at least some resistance pinching off your flow.
To better understand the word ‘resistance,’ it is sometimes helpful to analyze the opposite definition. Some antonyms of the word resistance are: harmony, accord, agreement, cooperation, flow. These are the qualities you should desire to send out when you’re playing in the energy of your desire. You can create your own Law of Attraction Love today to help increase your positive vibration!
Recall that the Universe matches and mirrors back to you whatever vibration you’re sending out. And it is not just on the topic of your desire. What’s the general level of your countenance in each day? Do you experience frequent annoyance, aggravation, impatience, grouchiness, apathy, or intolerance? Are you stressed and hurried? These emotional states are lingering in your energy field. The Universe is seeing and reflecting back to you reasons to experience more of what you’re already feeling.
Put the clean-up crew on the job by practicing better feeling thoughts. Search for more reasons to love and appreciate. Look around and offer appreciation for all the wonder and beauty that is all around you. Appreciation is one of the most effective vibration raisers. Now you are back in the unresisted attraction mode. Clean up your vibration by realizing what you are sending out and consciously choose to transmit at a higher level. The Universe will match that and you will have a much more enjoyable life experience.
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
I am sure you’ve realized every once in a while life seems to toss us a fast curveball? Something you weren’t ready for and often unwanted comes in. This unexpected possibility interrupts the stability of your life and can create tension. It depends on the tools we’ve acquired in our emotional coping toolbox, how we handle these hiccups can range from mildly unsettling to simply destructive. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.
We can think of these life interruptions as contrast. Contrast, defined as experiencing an event that is quite different from things we’re accustomed to. And that is life. Stuff is going to happen whether you desire it to or not. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!
Contrast has to come about in the world. You would not be alive if you didn’t experience contrast. I would like to show you how you can continue to be content, in control, and peaceful in light of all of the world’s contrast, including the most stark of changing life experiences.
If life is tossing you a curveball, if you can stop, remove all the emotional attachment and lower it down to simply the facts, you will find that what is being offered is just information. “My car is dented.” “My child got a D minus on his term paper.” “My brother is dying.” It’s the story we attach to the information that brings us down. Any life experience we’re going through that we dislike like, we can name contrast. Contrast, when viewed as information, will be used very effectively. Contrast simply shows us what is NOT desired. Once we know what isn’t wanted, we now have attained a very clear point of reference for what IS wanted. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and is simple to grasp.
Contrast, when taken as information, creates clarity. When you have clarity, you can begin making powerful creative thoughts and begin flowing energy and your intentions to that which you desire. You now have the Universe assisting you in attracting what you desire. For example, “My car has a dent in it” could help you achieve new desires such as, “I want to park where there is plenty of space for cars; where it’s easy to get in and out of my vehicle”. The not-so-hot grade on your child’s term paper might enhance your want for his well-being and clarity. Your sister having a cancer diagnosis could stimulate your wants to flow love, compassion, and healing intentions their direction.
Contrast is able to create amazing opportunities for knowledge, clarity, and creative intention. Contrast has provided clarity and has provided a fresh desire so you can channel your attention on what’s desired.
Contrast, when viewed as information (stripping the drama), provides elements that create a greater range of dynamic expression. No artist, inventor, or creator would ever desire to function in a world devoid of contrast. Learn to appreciate your life contrast, use it to create clarity and become the creator of your life.
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
Not many of us go about on a day-to-day basis truly understanding how we are feeling from moment to moment. Everyone has experienced putting on automatic pilot and going through the drag of life. In fact, putting your efforts on auto-pilot can be quite advantageous. Most likely if it means finishing a repetitive task such as raking leaves or making dinner. When you get into the groove of a repetitious action, the task can almost become a kind of meditative state. Provided you aren’t repeating a complaint or negative thought around in your mind, becoming very present with a repetitive task can be incredibly soothing and centering. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
Functioning on automatic might be ok for repetitious sorts of tasks, but when talking about meaningful movement of creative energy, you want to tune in slightly more deeply to what is truly going on in your energy level. Starting some personal private eye work on your current emotional level will assist you in seeing the areas you should move some resistance or static off the wire. When you acquire a clear, uncluttered transmission, what you want comes more easily and excluding the mush of things you’re accustomed to getting. For example, say you desire a love partner. You create a lover, but due to the fact that you’re scared of being fully emotionally committed, he lives across the country. Maybe you imagine you’re emotionally capable, but if you are receiving a mixed result, then you’re sending out a mixed message. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with great life coaching.
Take a look at your firmly held beliefs. Question your mind’s dialog. Is it actually true? Does clinging to that limiting line of thinking help you? What are some of your self-sabotaging patterns of thinking? Interestingly, most of the beliefs we have concerning the world around us aren’t true. They are beliefs we have inherited. Pose a question of yourself and then tune in to listen for an answer. Your inner guide will show you interesting insights if you’re willing to be quiet and listen. Law of Attraction Love Relationships are supremely rewarding and fulfilling beyond your most wonderful fantasies! Imagine someone who is everything you have ever desired in a partner.
Life was originally designed for you to be a success, find happiness, and flourish. We all came in with perfectly intact guiding systems sending us in the direction of our joy and self-expression. Hone back in to your mind and feelings. Pick the highest and best thoughts and emotions you can think of. Create with a clear signal and you will put yourself back in the creative cockpit of your life.
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
What about your “other” relationships? I mean, the ones with your sister, your boss, your roommate, or teenage step-son. How about your relationship with your wealth, your body, your Surroundings? Everything.
How are they made? “What do you mean how do I create them? They’re already created”. Well, perhaps, or perhaps not. The thing is, our ways of being, those practiced patterns of being that go unnoticed most of the time, are in reality ongoing patterns of manifestation. It’s an expectation, an already established way of being that does not allow for new potential outcomes. We hold expectations concerning our outcomes of relationships, and these expectations are always met. Your creations will almost always follow your expectations. So how about your other relationships? What new possibility could you bring to them? Relationship Attraction becomes easier with the assistance of a Life Coach.
When you think about creation as being an ever-present event rather than a done deal, you’ll find there’s much more movement, flow, and possibility that can occur. Energy really is fluid and able to shift easily. You’re not caught in one possibility and neither is anyone or anything else. At any given time there are an infinite number of possibilities that can come to pass. This goes for each relationship you have. Start allowing that possibility to every one of your relationships and watch how they start showing up in the way you want them to.
You have the power to re-hash the way they’re occurring. That is correct. You have this power. Your habitual way of thinking about them is precisely how they habitually appear. Law of Attraction Love is possible, and you can have the love of your dreams today!
Try this… Next time you have less than supremely positive thoughts about your ex, yourself, or your boss, attempt imagining them as perfect exactly as they are. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you enormously in the area of intentional manifestation and shedding yourself of limiting thoughts.
This may feel like a stretch at first, but I will guarantee that if you rehearse these techniques, they will begin appearing differently. You are a powerful creator!
Make the attempt. And I will be happy to hear from you about it.
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December 11, 2009
Guide to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I don’t want to be hurt again, but I truly want to be with my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you would think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and letting go from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that’s just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I am not speaking of the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you desire in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s important to realize what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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