December 11, 2009
Guide to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I don’t want to be hurt again, but I truly want to be with my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you would think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and letting go from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that’s just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I am not speaking of the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you desire in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s important to realize what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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